When she was 10 years old, Chido Govera was offered a way out. A relative walked many miles to see her and said: "You know, I see that you're suffering and I would like to help you. The only way I can help you is my husband has a friend and he's around 40, he's been struggling to find someone to marry and he thinks if you marry him, it would be a chance of escaping all this poverty and abuse. So you should come and meet him next Wednesday."
Other girls in Govera's position in rural Zimbabwe might have acquiesced. She never knew her father and lost her mother to Aids when she was seven. She was left to care for her grandmother, who was virtually blind, and her five-year-old brother. She would often wake up at 4am, search for firewood, walk at least a mile to fetch water, work in a field, attend school and go to bed hungry. She was also physically abused by members of her extended family.
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